What Great Leaders Stop Doing

Carlissa Runnels • February 17, 2026

Leadership growth isn’t only about learning new skills it’s also about unlearning behaviors that no longer serve the leader, the team, or the organization. Many leaders work hard to do more: more meetings, more decisions, more oversight. But truly great leaders understand that impact often comes from knowing what to stop doing. As leaders develop, they become more intentional, more focused, and more human. They let go of habits that limit trust, hinder growth, or drain energy and replace them with behaviors that empower others.



1. Great Leaders Stop Trying to Have All the Answers

Early in their careers, many leaders believe credibility comes from always knowing the solution. Over time, this mindset becomes a liability. Great leaders stop pretending to have all the answers and start asking better questions. They recognize that insight often lives within the team and that collective intelligence outperforms individual expertise. By shifting from expert to facilitator, leaders create space for innovation, ownership, and shared accountability.



2. Great Leaders Stop Micromanaging

Micromanagement is often rooted in good intentions, quality control, accountability, or speed. But it sends a powerful message of mistrust. Great leaders stop controlling how work gets done and focus instead on clarity of outcomes. They define expectations, provide resources, and then step back. When people are trusted, they are productive. When they’re controlled, they disengage.



3. Great Leaders Stop Confusing Activity with Impact

Being busy is not the same as being effective. Many leaders fill their days with meetings, emails, and tasks that create busyness but not progress. Great leaders regularly ask: Is this adding value? Does this align with our priorities? Should I be doing this at all? They stop doing work that others can do and focus their energy where leadership makes the greatest difference: direction, alignment, and people development.



4. Great Leaders Stop Avoiding Difficult Conversations

Avoidance is comfortable but costly. Unaddressed issues don’t disappear; they grow. Great leaders stop postponing hard conversations and start approaching them with clarity and empathy. They give timely feedback, address conflict early, and set clear boundaries. Courageous conversations build trust, prevent resentment, and strengthen relationships over time.



5. Great Leaders Stop Leading With Authority

Command style leadership may produce short-term compliance, but it undermines long term commitment. Great leaders stop relying on position, titles, or fear to drive results. Instead, they lead through influence, purpose, and example. People don’t give their best because they’re told to; they do so because they believe in the leader and the mission.



6. Great Leaders Stop Ignoring Their Own Development

Leadership growth doesn’t stop at promotion. In fact, the higher the role, the greater the need for self-awareness and learning. Great leaders stop assuming experience alone is enough. They seek feedback, invest in coaching, reflect on their impact, and continue learning. They understand that their personal growth directly shapes organizational growth.



7. Great Leaders Stop Doing What Others Need to Learn

Rescuing, fixing, and stepping in may feel helpful but it creates dependency. Great leaders stop solving problems for their people and start developing their ability to solve problems themselves. They coach instead of rescue and guide instead of direct. The goal is not to be indispensable but to build capable, confident teams. In the end, great leadership isn’t defined by how much a leader does but by how much they enable others to do.


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